Sunday, April 14, 2013

It Pays to be a Well Rounded High School Student

By Sebastian Ivory

            High school: it has to be the four most important years of your life. Though college is a close second, high school is the first time where your future can be determined. Your performance in high school will determine where you can go to college, where you can get a job, and other pathways down the road. It’s a snowballing affect. If you can succeed in high school, you can  open doors to yourself like going to top state or public universities. With recent measures passed by Governor Pat McCrory, an education can also open up opportunities in the workforce with new career ready diplomas starting to be implemented in 2014. One thing most people are mistaken on though is the importance of grades and test scores on your future endeavors after high school.
            As a senior who has been through the college process (Eventually settling on Wake Forest University) and who has visited many schools, including Duke, UNC, Tufts and Georgetown, I found that admissions officers are always trying to dispel one common myth: the myth that it’s only your GPA, class rank, and SATs that are going to get you into college. An admissions officer at Tufts told our admissions session that, out of all the students that apply to most top universities, over 80% are academically viable at the institution. This doesn’t mean your 4.0 GPA, 2400 SAT, and valedictorian status won’t help you, but in today’s environment that just isn’t enough. The first time I made a “formal” visit to Wake Forest was in 8th grade. I had just completed my freshman year schedule, but I was probably naive to say the least about what colleges wanted. And no, it isn’t too early to think about where you want to go to college your freshman year, but I’ll touch on that later. Wake Forest made sure to tell all the visiting Duke TIP students that they would rather see the A/B student in AP and Honors courses, than the straight A student in standard level courses. I also received that same message when I visited Boston University this past summer. Well, if your grades alone won’t get you into that dream university anymore, what will?
            From Wake Forest to Duke to UNC Chapel Hill, representatives told me that it was all about what you did outside of school. Find a passion; explore new things; don’t be afraid to get rejected. That’s not the easiest thing to do but you never know what it will lead to. I joined DECA my freshman year. I didn’t know a thing about marketing! When somebody said marketing, the first thing that came to my mind was running out to Harris Teeter and picking up some groceries. After having been in DECA for almost four years now, I couldn’t imagine what my life would have been like if I hadn’t have joined DECA. Occasionally these new adventures don’t always work out, but if they don’t, you’ve still tried it, and you’ve likely gained a new perspective on life from it. But besides joining DECA, there are also many other  things you can do to enhance your life and your chances of succeeding out of high school. From community service to sports teams to church involvement, there is truly something for everyone. These opportunities won’t always come to you though; sometimes you have to chase them down yourself. I was an out of shape kid sophomore year, which gave me a desire to change my fortunes before it was too late. I would have had difficulty making any team with my fitness level at that point, but I found the track team, which was a perfect place to call home for the rest of my high school athletic experience. Although trying anything new isn’t always peaches and cream, it’s a good experience and everything I’ve tried I think has improved me for the better. It will improve your life too!
            Whether you’re looking for scholarship opportunities, job openings, college acceptances, or just personal enrichment, there is nothing better to do in high school, and in college, than to put yourself out there and try something new. You never know, but you might even like it. I’d still like to go out and try something new between now and the end of the school year; it’s never too late to try something new until you’re six feet under. Best of luck to everyone finishing up the school year.  Whether you’ve got more high school, a job, or college ahead of you, just keep your eyes open and look for the next door to swing open in your life.

174 comments:

  1. It sounds like Sebastian committed to becoming an all-around student before he got into high school. I am happy he decided to stay active and that he got into a great college. His actions in high school will pay off in college.

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  2. Sebastian sounds like a model student - he had a great attitude, and was willing to try new things.

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  3. Sebastian states great ideas to pursue your passions in life.

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  4. Great reflections! Everything that happens in our lives is an experience to learn from. Focusing on being well rounded, will a positive attitude can help build a firm foundation, not just for education, but for life!

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  5. I think that all entering 9th graders should read Sebastian's blog. I definitely love to see students who are passionate about something and carry through. It helps them to truly stand out from others.

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  6. As a freshman teacher, I think that Sebastian's comments are spot on! I believe that every freshman should hear these words and heed his advice. It is alarming to see seniors realize that he or she has not completed the correct course work to go to the school of their choice just because he or she did not explore all of the options as an underclassman. I also stress to my freshman students the importance of exploration and involvement within clubs. I have also encouraged these students to seek out a faculty member to form a new club if they see a need. Thank you Sebastian!

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  7. Sebastian the way you set up your goals and expectations to become a well rounded student is remarkable. You are the example of what a 21st Century student should be. Way to go!

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  8. Sebastian, thank you for the advice that you are providing for young people through this blog. You understanding that high school has a " snowball effect" is exactly correct. I like that you give your real world experience of what admissions offices have offered as advice to you. That a straight A student in regular courses is not as appealing as an A/B student who reaches out to the more advanced courses. The best piece of advice though that you gave, in my opinion, is to seek out opportunities. The idea that opportunities are just going to show up on a school bulletin board is somewhat naïve. I wish you the best luck and thank you for the sound advice.

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  9. Mary Beth BumgarnerApril 16, 2013 at 9:38 PM

    What a fantastic article! You have some good, solid advice here for students to consider as they are working their way through high school and thinking about college. Being well-rounded- a good student AND active in clubs, non-profit programs, and volunteer hours is HUGE. Kudos to you for some great info. here and good luck at Wake Forest!

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  10. This is an awesome article! I truly think this is a must-read for all rising 8th and 9th grade students especially. Too many students don't find out that they should have been doing all these things until the fall of their senior year in the midst of the college application process. What great info to share with students as soon as possible! :)

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  11. This is great advice. When you attend a college you become part of their community. Schools want to make sure that you will be a model citizen and a productive resident for the 4 years you are there. There is more to education than just the books. Go Deacs!

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  12. I think this would be excellent for every rising 9th grader to read. They often don't understand how important and far reaching their choices are going to be at this point. I hate to see upper classmen realize that they have not completed the correct course work to go to the school they want just because they did't check out all of the possible options. This article could open some eyes.

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  13. So true! Much of the same can be said for financial aid coming from universities and colleges. When one of my sisters applied to UNC med school she was applying with other 4.0+ valedictorians. What made the difference for her acceptance with so many others rejected? Her substantial volunteer work, work abroad, and fluency in Spanish. With so many viable collegiate candidates, schools have their "pick of the litter." It is never too early to start differentiating yourself from the rest!

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  14. Great comments. Colleges want "well-rounded" citizens. Grades and intelligence are important but giving back to the community is what makes America great.

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  15. A perfect ACT score and a +4.0 GPA isn't the most important thing about a student and their future.
    Case in point-My brother was in the top one percent of his graduating class but he bypassed being valedictorian to take weightlifting instead of an AP class. He has played baseball from the time he was 4 years old in t-ball and in doing so has traveled to Cooperstown, NY twice to play at the Dreams Park, Disney to play at the Wide World of Sports complex, and St. Louis. He and the school's valedictorian applied for early decision to Wake Forest University. My brother received acceptance during early decision enrollment and the valedictorian was denied entrance. Grades and test scores are important but THEY don't make the student. The STUDENT makes the student.

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  16. Awesome article to encourage students to think about being well rounded. Going beyond your typical school day and out into the world helps us become more aware and appreciative of others.

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  17. What a great post Sebastian! You are correct in saying colleges are looking for more, in fact a 4.0 won't cut it for most colleges. Universities are looking for someone like you who is involved in influencing/experiencing life outside of school. Questions to consider when looking for volunteer/extra-curricular activities are: What is your passion? How can you help your local community? How can your past experiences be used to benefit others? Thanks for being a tutor, especially in science!

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  18. I teach Art in a large urban high school. Recently I too visited colleges with my daughter who wants to go to Duke. The administrations there agreed that community service and outside interests are crucial to the acceptance to most good institutions. They were also interested in the students’ progress during their senior year - which is often a year in which our students think that they can slack off. High school is definitely a stepping stone - but one that begins the intellectual journey that shows others that you can follow the path.

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  19. This is a thoughtful posting about what type of students universities want to attract. Book smarts and SAT prep classes are beneficial, but they do not reflect a commitment to service, problem-solving, and the larger community. And they do not reflect the value of experience. I will for sure share this with my school's Dean of Students.

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  20. I love the visual of the triangle. Time Management is a "learned" skill which comes only by much practice. For some of us, it takes a lot of practice. We all lead full lives and no matter if you're a student or a teacher, this illustrates the on going battle between life's "wanna-do's" and life's "hav-to-do's". When a choice between the two is imminent, we all hope the right decision is made. Unfortunately, knowing if we made the right choice usually isn't visible until we're on the other side. For students it's a crucial piece of the work process.

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  21. It is great to be try to be well rounded. It sounds like you are on your journey to a successful life.

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  22. True, but everyone should also remember ... QUALITY, not quantity. It is better to do one or two things really well than spreading yourself too thin and doing five things poorly.

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  23. Great job discovering that college want students who are well-rounded and challenged not only academically but socially.

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  24. I enjoyed reading this article. It is nice to know students are listening and helping each other succeed.

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  25. I bet you will have a lot of colleges that would like you in attendance. Great work!

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  26. I think being a peer tutor is something that many colleges would be interested in. So many colleges offer a similar program for their own students, it would be nice to admit someone with experience in that area.

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  27. Congratulations Sebastian! My oldest daughter is graduating from Wake in May, and one of my former students (an unofficial adopted daughter) is a junior at Wake - she is a Marshall for graduation in May. You are right - look at colleges early, determine what you need to be accepted, and begin working. The only other advice that I would like is for students to remain open minded - you never know where or great opportunities may come your way.

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  28. Stephanie, this was such a well- written article that was direct, humorous and honest! I enjoyed reading it and will be sure to encourage my students to visit the Peer Tutoring Blog! All the best next year in college!

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  29. Great article and great advice! The one thing I often hear from my seniors when they ask me to write a reference is how they've done eight or ten activies after school. When I've asked them what they've done, they often have an office in one or two and just belong to the others to be able to put them on their college and scholarship applications. I think, that as educators, we really need to push students away from quantity and focus them on quality.

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  30. Since so many colleges are interested in students who give service to their classmates, school, and community, I would think that being a peer tutor would definitely make you stand out among other applicants. When I was in my undergrad, I was paid for being a peer tutor and this program would be a terrific experience that might one day give them further work experience and opportunities.

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  31. Awesome article! Everything you said is exactly what I'm trying to get my freshman high school students to understand. Many of them don't take their first two years of high school seriously, and then when it's time to apply for the college of their choice, they realize they're not eligible. Please share your wisdom with as many students as possible!!:)

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  32. I do not think you could have said it better: colleges are looking for well-rounded students. I tell all my students the same thing, colleges want more than just grades. They want the total packages. Students need to try different things to explore their passions and opportunities before entering college. How can you know what college to attend? Your major? Finding your passion is necessary and it is evident when I write recommendations for students. If a student has fifty things, it looks like they participate once with the organization then quit. I like it when students have stayed with organizations for years and built up a reputation within the group.

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  33. The information you provided is exactly what students need to hear as they are entering high school. As a teacher I want the best for my students but know that the opinion of peers carries more weight. It is great to have this information provided by a peer with experience!

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  34. You had me in the first few sentences. I try to express the importance of the high schools years to my students all of the time. Students hearing it from another student is important. Continue to tell a much needed message!

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  35. Great advice for ALL students. It is important to start planning for the future early.

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  36. What you write is so true, Sebastian. To me what matters most about high school is figuring out who you are and what you need to be happy in life. Then the future falls into place. It is the time of identification and independence, learning to stand on your own merit.

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  37. This great advice...high school is a time of discovery. It is really at 18 to figure out what you want to with the rest of your life, so it is important to try many clubs, sports, and classes in high school.

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  38. Great article. I especially like, "I found that admissions officers are always trying to dispel one common myth: the myth that it’s only your GPA, class rank, and SATs that are going to get you into college."

    It should be added, however, that college admissions is also about demographics. It is easier to get into a good university far far away from where you live than a good university in your own state.

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  39. I enjoyed your positive and can-do article, Sebastian. You seem open to every possibility and ready to grab any opportunity that comes along. I especially enjoyed your insight about how even the experiences that aren't a success give you something.

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  40. Great post! The idea that you need to show that you can follow a passion is a very important point. Colleges are sophisticated enough to differentiate between a student who joins clubs to pack a resume and students who find a passion. I'm glad you found one. We're lucky that there are so many opportunities to explore clubs in schools.

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  41. What a great job you did in giving students advice about what colleges are looking for. It's important for students to be well-rounded!

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  42. Sebastion - I applaud your initiative! You have taken responsibility to become the well -rounded person you want to be! I love the way you celebrate all of the experiences and learn from them. Yeah!
    Kim Roberts

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  43. Looking myself for a door to swing open...!

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  44. good overall advice; well rounded is a good approach

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  45. Thanks for your thoughtful insights. As a teacher of many years it has always been interesting to follow former students and their paths post high school. I couldn't agree more that while grades are important, the students that seem to really hit their stride are those that paid attention to so much more than grades; they took risks, got outside of their comfort zone and really explored what was out there in many different areas.

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  46. I really enjoyed your post. I think it is important for students to be well rounded and strive to do well, which does not always mean straight A's.

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  47. I enjoyed reading your article. You gave some great advice to students. It is important to be well rounded. You also gave some good advice about college and what they are looking for. Good luck to you!!

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  48. This was an enjoyable article. I appreciated you insight into the importance of being well rounded along with being as academically strong as possible.

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  49. Wonderful reflections, Sebastian. "Putting yourself out there" is often tough for adolescents, but as your blog post asserts, it really is the way to be successful and to enjoy yourself.

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  50. Great article. Students do need to be well rounded if they are to succeed academically as well as socially.

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  51. Great insight. It is very important for students to realize that good grades alone do not make you successful in the 21st century. In today's global world you have to also be able to communicate and collaborate as well as have the general subject knowledge.

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  52. There is so much to see and do in this world. Get involved and also know that it's ok to say "no" to some things. It's ok to be heavily involved in a few things instead of horribly over-extended (and, therefore, only superficially involved) in a thousand things just to make a college application look good. Good article!

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  53. I've been teaching ten years and I always try new things in the classroom and in my personal life. Ignorance may be bliss, but look at all the joy you could be missing if you didn't take opportunities. Best of luck to you. I will you much success in the future!

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  54. Education is one of those professions that is forever changing, so you have to be one that's willing to embrace new things and ways of learning.

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  55. Thanks so much for posting this, Sebastian. This is true for ALL students. So many high achieving students don't feel the need to be well-rounded, but hopefully, they'll listen to peers like you. I found most interesting your comment about how admissions officers would rather see A/B students in AP courses than straight-A students in standard courses.

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  56. What a great article! It is clear that you have things in perspective. It is also very important to be a well rounded person in all that you attempt--not just your studies. Thank you for taking the time to put this together for our students!

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  57. All students musty realize that In our global world you must be ready to get engaged and not only relied on good grades to achieve your goal.

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  58. This is great! The same message I have been trying to convey to my students for the past 15 years - that, while grades are important, colleges want to see and know what interests you - they want to see that you are taking part in activities not necessarily tied to academics. Bravo!

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  59. I really like your point and inside and how much it will help our online students

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  60. I like your article! All students need to become engaged in their own learning, challenge themselves, and learn as many different skills as possible while in high school. So many times, students come to this realization rather late and wish they could redo their high school years. Thanks for what you are doing to spread the word!

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  61. I think this is a great post for freshman to read that would really help them be more successful in high school!

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  62. Thank you for writing this! Sometimes my students feel like all they have to have is good grades to get into a good school. I am going to share your post with them!!

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  63. This is great advice for students. Sometimes High School students get caught up in the routine of day-to-day school activities and forget to just live their lives to the fullest.

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  64. Great advice that can benefit students in any stage of their high school career.

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  65. This is some really good advice for students at any level. Students do need to know what they do now will affect their tomorrow. This is a must read.

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  66. Being a well rounded student is important for your future, but it is also important for your enjoyment now. School would be dull if all it was was academics. I had a conversation just last night about how important it is to get involved, to try new things. It makes life a little more meaningful. The PTC is a great opportunity for virtual students to get involved.

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  67. I really enjoyed reading your blog. I don't know that I agree completely with your 4 years of high school being the most important years of your life, but I definitely believe they can be the 4 most influential years of your life. The choices you make in high school do help to determine the path you will take into adulthood. I agree that both colleges and employers are interested in more than just grades - it is the whole individual that is most important. Good Luck to you at Wake Forest!

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  68. This article has a great way of explaining the need to be a well rounded student. Many students have the misconception of sticking to their GPA's and SAT's scores. This is not the case when a student is trying to get into a prestigious university. This is a piece to share with incoming freshmen to help shape and plan their 4-year tracks.

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  69. Fantastic! Love the article, Sebastian! You have an incredible insight on the importance of being "well-rounded". All students will benefit from this awareness. Being well rounded is essential to all students being College and Career Ready!

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  70. I think that it is so important for high school students to expand their boundaries. I don't agree that they are the MOST important years of your life. I do think, though, that they can be the gateway to better options for success. I tell students that just being "smart" isn't always what is going to put you over the top. You need an edge. Volunteering is one best things to give you that edge.

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  71. Being well-rounded is a wonderful life skill! Being able to balance your interests, responsibilities, obligations and leisure with grace and a good attitude is something we should all strive for. Not only will it help get students into college but should keep them passionate and happy about their work. Thank you for sharing your ideas.

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  72. This is excellent advice for every student, no matter what college, university, or other post-high school experience they are expecting. It is very important to expose yourself to other areas that can make you more well-rounded, create new experiences, and spark new interests. Thank you for sharing your experiences as these can only help others!

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  73. What a great idea for all people to take advantage of, regardless of age! It really does pay to try something new and get re-energized, make some new friends or discover a new interest...

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  74. I am glad that you made this post for others to view about doing something else besides just the academics of school. I have seen all too often that students solely focus on grades and GPA and even give up the other things that they love such as sports, music and art only to realize too late that those things are what make them well-rounded and appealing to colleges.

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  75. So many students forget that education is comprehensive and there is more to them than a transcript. Cudos!

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  76. Excellent place for students to express and share their experiences in any subject in education, it is good that you can express yourself and use the correct language using this blog to communicate any thought!

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  77. Great explanation of the importance of being well-rounded..I would add to not lose focus on the importance of having a passion/dedication to your goals as well. You obviously have this and hopefully that inspires other students as well.

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  78. In this day and age it is refreshing to see that there are young people who are not getting discouraged and who still want to strive for excellence. He is an inspiration to his peers as well as us "seasoned folk"

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  79. What great advice for rising high school freshmen to read! You are right that high school begins to set the direction for your life and where you'll be able to go. It's so impressive that you chose to get involved in more than just academics and friends in your high school career.

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  80. Great advice for other students. So many lose sight of the fact that quality of experience matters as much if not more than the quantity (in this case grades). Being well rounded is very important. In a situation where so many applicants are vying for the same spot, having that edge is so vital in getting admitted.

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  82. Sebastian...it was so refreshing to read from a student how important it is to be well-rounded and go out and find experiences while in high school. So many students just focus on grades (which are important) and forget the rest. Thanks for sharing your story.

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  83. I love the specificity of your stories and your references to specific schools which are likely stretch schools for many NCVPS students. I do think that you might want to be cautious with the term "well-rounded student", which is going out of fashion among admissions officers. What the people at the colleges were describing to you is what is often called, in admissions slang, a "well-angled student". Find a passion--but don't confuse that with trying everything. Intensity of commitment counts much more than number of commitments, and many colleges ask how many hours a week to give to an activity. Find one or two things you love. That doesn't mean don't shop around activities, especially in early years, but don't overload for the sake of resume padding.

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  84. It's really great to see a motivated student who is interested in more than just themselves and willing to share their knowledge with others.

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  85. You are so correct! It is very important to be well-rounded. Too much of anything is not good! It is important to set aside time to do a variety of things to make you a well-rounded student.

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  86. Thanks Sebastian! I try to tell my f2f students this ALL THE TIME. Maybe they will listen to a fellow student :)
    -Erin Guzman

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  87. That is so true Sebastian. You are fortunate to already recognize that. I will also pass this information on to my students. Thanks!

    annette frey

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  88. I believe this to be very important. As a high school basketball coach I know first hand that unless you are in the top ten players in the nation, colleges are not looking to give scholarships based solely on athleticism. You must be a good student and a well-rounded person.

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  89. Well rounded is indeed important. Two common factors that all of our students who were accepted into prestigious schools were that they had all taken online courses and all of them had a job. I found these commonalities interesting. These were kids who went to: Yale, Stanford, UNC, Duke and Princeton.

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  90. This is the best advice you could ever give college-bound students. It not only helps with their admission status but it helps them learn how to manage their time, which is a must in college. Great article.

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  91. This is great advice for both high school and beyond. Being well-rounded helps you to respect and understand others.

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  92. Stephanie, This was fantastic advice. Applying to college, starting a new job, or just finishing high school can be overwhelming. I agree with you. In order to broaden your horizons, you must try something new. Get out of your comfort zone. By doing this, you are preparing yourself for the future and limitless possibilities.

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  93. Seb, I'm so glad to see your writing for this blog, first of all! You are my only former student that has become a Peer Tutor - I'm so incredibly proud of you!!!!

    My favorite line is "t’s never too late to try something new until you’re six feet under." We all can be reminded of that fact. (It's especially poignant for me today as I attended the funeral of two the dad of 2 MAC students.)

    You are exactly right on being well-rounded too: every college wants a whole person, not just an academic automaton.

    Keep up the good work!

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  94. Excellent advice :) Don't ever spread yourself too thin, though. Do what you love!

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  95. Putting yourself out there, totally vulnerable in front of your peers, has to be one of the most challenging, yet rewarding things a person can do.

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  96. Very well thought out and insightful. Students today need to be very well rounded. There is more to school than just grades. You have to learn about balancing in life - high school is a great place to start, but as the person above said, be sure not to spread yourself too thin.

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  97. Nice work. The social aspects of tutoring combined with the cognitive benefits of teaching will pay off for everybody.

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  98. The ability to do so many things is important - and it's great to see students like you working hard to stay focused but also be well-rounded.

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  99. I really liked the comment that was made about being an A/B student in AP and honors courses rather than being an A student in standard level courses. Students need to be challenged and I liked that this was brought up in the article.

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  100. Sebastian, looks like you got a great jump on life. It is very important to be a well-rounded adult.

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  101. As an educator who wears many hats, I love this blog. It motivates students to be well rounded and indicates the importance of trying new things. College is a new world of independence and networking, so starting in high school by joining an organization or sport is a definite plus! You get first-hand experience with time management and demonstrate to post secondary institutions and organizations that you are a commodity. Top tier schools desire top tier students who are self-motivated and truly reach for the stars.

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  102. Well roundedness gives you perspective that will help you complete the important things in your life.

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  103. It is great to see students with passion! Apathy is the killer of dreams!

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  104. It most certainly pays to be well rounded. You will later be able to realize that everything you open your mind to only makes you a better person.

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  105. Sebastian,
    You have aptly described not only a high school, but college and beyond person. Being well rounded will help us keep our perspectives and thoughts open. This well rounded personality makes better citizens, workers, and students. Thanks for sharing a very true article. Nice job, Ms. Loudermilk

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  106. Whatever you do whether it be big or small is important to do it well. I like how you used the snowball effect and also it's like a ripple in a pond it radiates outward so if you do something even the smallest of things it affects many other things around you. Being wholehearted in all you do is important. Thanks for sharing.

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  107. Being well rounded opens a lot of doors. While you are seeking opportunities you will discover what you love to do. Finding a passion will help you decide your career.

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  108. excellent advice on getting organized, I can use some of these tips myself as an NCVPS instructor. I really like your idea on keeping the to do list short and sweet, using abbreviations so it doesn't seem like so much :) great tips!

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  109. Excellent advice!! Been open to all kinds of possibilities is a great way to find out what you want to do in life.

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  110. What great information. From the standpoint of a teacher and a parent. I want my students and children to read this post!

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  111. Excellent Information! Everyone should seek to reach their potential and not sell themselves short!

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  112. kathleen orfanedesApril 24, 2013 at 9:11 AM

    I like how your writing is so clearly infused with your personality. This makes it really nice to read. :)

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  113. What great advice. One problem high school students have today is spreading themselves too thin. Finding the right balance between keeping the grades up and outside activities is an achievement in itself.

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    1. Great point/balance is important in school and after school when you have more and more obligations

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  114. Congratulations on your acceptance to Wake Forest, I know that you will have a rich academic experience there. I took lessons from your blog that I can apply to my own live, like continuing to be involved in many different activities, even as an adult. As an NCVPS teacher, I applaud your many successes and wish you luck for the future. and GO DEACS! (from our Wake Forest family to yours)

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  115. I found your assessment to be honest and useful for other students. This is a good resource for teachers and students alike.

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  116. I believe you have discovered something lost on a generation. While specialization can lead to a greater income, the idea of being "well rounded" can lead to greater enjoyment of life.

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  117. Well put. My degree is in pure mathematics, but I relish my Arthurian Literature course and History of the American West course like nothing else. I am glad that there is a voice putting this thought out there now!

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  118. Since I teach both honors and AP courses face to face, I frequently have the conversation about doing your best and learning it is okay to have a "B" in a higher level course. Most colleges are not looking for perfection but rather an intrinsic motivation, desire to succeed and "well rounded" student.
    It is helpful when students get this information from their peers.
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  119. An excellent, thought provoking post, and one I will be recommending to my students. When teaching f2f, I encouraged students to join clubs, get involved in student government, try a sport - this post has convinced me to do the same for my online students! Well rounded students become well rounded adults and citizens!
    R. Tingley

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  120. Excellent post. It seems the f2f world and distance learning are coming together on a daily basis. Technology is all over the place and we here at the NCVPS are doing a great job.

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  121. Also there are many aspects of being a well rounded student. Remember high test scores don't always amount to success in life. Rather be a hard worker than just smart.

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  122. Great post! This would also apply to life after high school or college. Being proactive and open to new job opportunities will be very important, especially if you will be working in a competitive market.

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  123. Very well-stated! I am so impressed with you commitment!

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  124. Sebastian, I got my undergrad & masters at WFU and am thrilled they've changed their admissions policy. I agree that a more well rounded student who can show more than straight A's and a high SAT score is a more desirable one. Way to go! ~ Claire Driscoll

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  125. Hey Sebastian. You seem to really have it together has a high school student. Be proud of yourself and additionally proud that you are sharing this with others. Bravo.

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  126. I am thrilled to read your reflections! I have been encouraging my f2f students for years to be involved. Your experiences exemplify the importance of putting yourself out there, trying new things, and growing as a individual. Thank you for sharing!

    Cynthia Ellis

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  127. Thanks for sharing your experience about your high school years. Hearing this information from a peer is so important. As a former school counselor, I always encouraged my students to stretch themselves by getting involved and/or discovering something they liked to do or wanted to learn more about. The journey is just as important as the destination.

    Melissa Harrelson

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  128. Completely agree. With the sheer volume of students applying to universities these days, being a great "student" is only one piece of the puzzle. They aren't just looking for students of great academia anymore. No, they are looking for those who are active as community leaders, group organizers, invested in their school and in society in ways that cannot be measured simply by GPA and SAT scores anymore.

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  129. This is such a wonderful blog entry! It is so true that grades are only a part of the equation when trying to get into the best colleges! Students today must be well-rounded citizens as well!

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  130. I can relate to this entry. I spend hours in AVID teaching about the importance of ALL you do. College is for everyone, it is all about the correct match. Many students especially those who come from affluent powerful counties are always thinking about GPA's ,test scores, AP classes (how many...etc) that is not it! that's only a part of it. We are talking about the things that set you apart from all other applicants in your pool. Great thought Sebastian!

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  131. I really appreciate how you explain that colleges expect more than just grades and a rigorous schedule. This really does set you apart and shows that you are part of a larger community in a more global context than being limited by four walls.

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  132. What a fresh perspective you have shared. You are absolutely correct; becoming well-rounded not only makes you more marketable for colleges it makes you a better person. We all need to step outside of our comfort zones more often.

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  133. This is the first time I have been to your site and I LOVE IT!!!! Great job.
    Melinda Pockoski

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  134. This is a wonderful viewpoint. I like the fact that you encourage others to find a passion. It doesn't have to be Student Government. Colleges are looking for involvement.

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  135. Wonderful insight. I am always talking to my students about making sure that school is not the only thing they are involved in. I think it is so important to be constantly increasing your human capital.

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  136. What amazing insight! I agree that students need to be well-rounded and not just be academically invested. Thanks for giving me something that I will share with my students! :)

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  137. It is great to see in black and white, and hear of Sebastian's testimony about the importance of involvement outside of school, along with meeting grade and test score requirements for college admission. Leadership, team skills, and marketing/business skills are life long that transfer into all careers. I will use this article with my 9th and 10th grade students, and hope they will be motivated to get more involved in their face-to-face schools, and maybe become a Peer Tutor or Virtual Buddy. :)

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  138. I like that the college representatives recommend: finding a passion and exploring new things - such an important lesson as you find your way in life and what you want to do; be sure that you are passionate about the course in life that you choose!

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  140. I agree it's important to take a well-rounded approach. I don't know if everyone has the same four "most important years" in life, but I agree that getting involved and taking school seriously (not making it the only activity, but keeping it as a top priority) can open doors and allow for many exciting options, post-h.s.!

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    1. I think this is a great post! When I was applying to colleges over 15 years ago, I was accepted into UNC-CH. Although I did not have the highest GPA or SAT scores, I still believe that all of my extra curricular activities was the main reason I was accepted while other friends were not. You make a great point!

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  141. I think that as important as it is to be well-rounded, students should also be sure that they aren't "a mile wide and an inch deep." I think that it's best to find one or two activities of special interest and to develop some depth in those areas to show a level of dedication and passion in an area.

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  142. I agree that students are more than SAT scores and GPA. It is nice that colleges are recognizing worthwhile extra-curriculars

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  143. Sebastian hit the nail on the head. I started my daughter volunteering in the community/church when she was fairly young. It has become second nature to her now. It is so important to be well-rounded not just for college reasons but for life reasons.
    Great post.

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  144. This should be read by all parents of middle and high school students. The competition for getting into college is getting more challenging. Students need to take further steps to making their applications and resumes well-rounded.

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  145. This is such great advice! I think that many students miss this component! Thanks for sharing and helping out others!

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  146. What an impressive article - great to get students thinking about being well-rounded and staying focused on all the things that matter (not just the academics)

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  147. Excellent advice!

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  148. This is a great article! Many 14 year olds entering high school are not thinking about their future, but their grades are beginning to affect their GPA that will get them into college and eventually help them decide what career path to take. Also, getting involved outside of school is very helpful for college applications. When applying to a school, there will be many students with the same GPA as you, so having something to set you apart from the rest is imperative. Getting involved in the peer tutoring center seems like a perfect opportunity to me!

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  149. Sebastian hit the nail on the head. I started my daughter volunteering in the community/church when she was fairly young. It has become second nature to her now. It is so important to be well-rounded not just for college reasons but for life reasons.
    Great post.

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  150. Getting involved in one's community has so many benefits. The act allows you to "get outside yourself," something that can be hard in high school, and connect with a more diverse community of people caring for one another. A positive side effect is that colleges will see this action, presume that this work indicates your values. and will be swayed. It's a win-win-win for you, the community, and the college.

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  151. I agree! Extra curricular activities tell more about who you are rather than just academic success.

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  152. This is great advice for all students, high school and college. Volunteering creates amazing opportunities, but for those students who, for whatever reason, need to hold a paid job and feel like they don't have time to do as much volunteer work as they would like, remember that on-the-job experience also helps make you a well-rounded person.

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  153. What an awesome piece, Sebastian! As a teacher whose student load is 70% seniors this year, I hear of experiences similar to yours almost daily. And I encourage my own students to share their experiences wit the underclassmen. You have just done so in a different venue and will probably have the ability to share with more people this way. Thank you for writing your contributions!

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  154. Great article! It speaks to the truth of being in high school. You can't just rely on your grades anymore to get in to college. Students must have extracurricular activities, volunteer, do something to add to their high school resumes. It's only gonna get tougher and tougher!

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  155. It's very true that universities look at more than just grades! It's great that high school students that may not have the best grades still see that they can still impress good universities with their life outside of school.

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  156. You addressed so many great points. Participating in a variety of activities not only looks great on your college admission information, but it also helps to create a more well rounded person. I think it is important for young people to learn that participating in a wide array of activities shows a great deal about your character and commitment to things. Great article!

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  157. I think many students are extremely confused by grades and college and high school life in general. Unfortunately, it takes some a long time to work things out and their college profiles suffer. This is a wonderful post that can help many students! Thank you.

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  158. I loved reading this article. It stressed the importance of being a well rounded student. As Sebastion stated one has to find a passion outside of the academic areana to help evolve them into a well-rounded individual. This is something that every student needs to understand!

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  159. Like most of the others posted, this is a great article helping to reinforce the idea that while it SEEMS that all the emphasis is on grades grades grades- Colleges are still looking for a well-rounded student.

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  160. I'm glad to see this article was written by a student. Students must realize that getting into college is not just about grades. Furthermore, being active in high school teaches you to manage your time which is definitely a wise thing to do in college. Colleges and Universities want students who are well rounded and this article explains how turning your passion into extra-curricula activities can be beneficial.

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  161. As a parent and a teacher, I try to tell kids all the time that you can't just focus on grades, you need to focus on yourself and your passions. This is the time to start looking at what you want to do. Thanks for the reinforcement.

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  162. This is a great companion piece to the blog just above yours about planning for GPA. One other thing you might want to mention to students is that they should not be shy in selling themselves when they apply for scholarships and college admission. I often hear "It was just ...." when students describe awesome things they do outside of class. Make sure others see that awesomeness in your applications!

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  163. You are absolutely correct - being well-rounded is crucial not only to getting into college, but being successful in life. Getting involved gives us a sense of purpose beyond our job or schoolwork. It teaches us so many wonderful things like humility, patience, perseverance, and just to care about others. These are important life skills, which is why colleges value them so highly! They want students who will one day give back to them/the community.

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  164. Being well rounded, I strongly believe is probably a better tool than being the super academician. Companies want people with 21st Century skills, and SO MANY of them have NOTHING to do with gpa but rather the ability to collaborate, be proactive, a problem solver, etc. People and management skills are rarely taught from a book. They are learned through life experience. (Jeanne Pastorius, TA NCVPS).

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  165. Beautiful! I wish I could get all of students to understand the importance of being well-rounded. It opens so many more doors beyond college when you have other experiences. Always keeping yourself open to "the adventures" you referred to will set you up for success and a life of enjoyment. Well said! Amy C (TA NCVPS)

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  166. Finally! A student who understands the importance of being studious and well-rounded. Colleges and universities want to know that you able to articulate outside of a book! Collaboration and communication are necessary 21st century skills. So many of our students lack those necessary skills. Thank you Sebastian for relaying this message to your peers! (Kizzy R, TA NCVPS)

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  167. Schools such as Wake Forrest no longer use SAT scores for admissions because they understand the importance of well rounded students. It was very refreshing reading your perspective. Your wisdom greatly exceeds your years. (Vogel, C TA NCVPS)

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  168. I cannot agree with this post enough! My grades and SAT scores were pretty good in high school, but what really secured college acceptance letters and scholarships for me was my community service and volunteering work. Colleges want to see leaders and forward-thinking applicants!
    (Libby M, TA NCVPS)

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  169. Wonderful article! I could not agree more and as I was reading your article that was jammed packed with such amazing advice for my eighth graders at Mineral Springs Middle School, I had an idea. Would you be interested in speaking either virtually or f2f with my students in the Spring Semester 2014? We have a time in our schedule that we focus on their high school careers. If you are interested please let me know. I am a TA for NCVPS.

    Denise G., TA NCVPS

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  170. Excellent article. I had a minority female with a 3.8 GPA and one sport to get denied entry into UNCW (her first choice). I firmly believe that GPA, sports and at least one passion is necessary to enter into competitive schools such as UNCW. In addition, community service is necessary to enter into these colleges. Find your passion, excel in school and spend time helping others. This is the key.

    Donna Thomas, TA NCVPS

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  171. Great article! I'm glad colleges are starting to get that information out! For years I've been telling my students that it is not just grades that get you in! Thanks for posting!

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